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The Road Not Taken

1/10/2023

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​In his poem, The Road Not Taken, Robert Frost tells of a ride in a wood where two roads diverge. The narrator had to choose which one to travel. Both attracted him, but after long deliberation he took that which looked more grassy and less worn. He told himself he would keep the other for another day, yet doubted that he ever would return. He concludes the poem with a sigh:
 
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I –
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference.
 
The ride in the wood and the choice of roads to follow may just be an image of a choice he had to make in life. We all face these choices, often many times in a long life. What subjects do we choose at GCSE? Do we go into the 6th form, pursue an apprenticeship, join the RAF? Do we want to marry, have children? Should we stay in our job or seek to change for a different challenge, go on working or retire early, take our elderly parent into our home or pay for care? These are all critical life choices which could “make all the difference.”
 
But as Catholics – and I embrace both those who were so-called ‘cradle Catholics’ and those who have taken the route of becoming Catholic – we are constantly faced with the choice of becoming a better, more knowledgeable and committed Catholics, remaining as we are, or leaving the Church as so many have done in recent times. To remain as  Catholic without conversion to a better life, which is called metanoia, is to refuse to seek God’s face, to avoid making the choice. When we are given the gift of faith, we must develop it and share it. 
 
The choice to become a better Catholic should be easy, but the attractions of the world, the material goods we possess, the opportunities for entertainment, the scorn for religion in our society make leaving even easier. We are all inclined to go for the simple way, pursuing wealth, pleasure and an easy life. However, the better road, though harder and not so well trodden, is the road of love, the road of fullness of life: life in the world and also in the spirit. 
 
When I was in school a poem was written by one of the older boys who had clearly read Robert Frost’s poem. I can’t remember all of it, but the first lines read, the second only partial:
 
There are two and choosing to be done, / choose quick….
 
By quick the young poet meant two things: choose your road quickly but also choose life. Jesus told us to be ready now as we do not know when we will be called. We can ‘eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die’ or choose life and the salvation which Jesus promised to those who follow him. The choice will make all the difference to our lives now and beyond this world. 
 
4 Comments
John Smart
1/10/2023 09:36:08 pm

As a parish we need to grow spiritually - regularly receive the sacraments, listen to the word on Sunday & listen to Father's homilies but maybe we are missing out in other areas of opportunity for spiritual development. Every Lent & Advent, the parish receives a supply of "Walk With Me" booklets but how many get taken home and how many go no further than the back of the church? We regularly have Lent & Advent meetings on a Monday night in which we gather to read the scriptures and pray together but I rarely see many new faces at these meetings. I believe that traditionally - as Catholics - we've been content to go to Mass on a Sunday & Holy Days, support financially any parish appeals and encourage family members to come along at Easter & Christmas. I can't help feeling that we need to be doing more if we are to move from spiritual "milk" onto spiritual "solids" (as we're exhorted to in Hebrews). There are numerous resources available to us and I know of Catholics within the parish who regularly tap into these resources, however, I think maybe not everyone attending St Peter's is aware of the ease of accessing such spiritual treasures and maybe we need to explore ways of raising that level of awareness?

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John Lally
1/12/2023 08:38:40 pm

John, thank you for the comment. I think perhaps we should add that numerous parishioners also contribute in practical ways to the parish and may find spiritual development in that way. I would point to the emphasis that some of the monastic orders place on work. However, we are all obliged as Catholics to develop our knowledge and understanding of the faith as well as participate in the paschal mystery in the Mass. We do need to involve more parishioners in the opportunities we offer in the parish for developing spiritually and knowledgeably about the Faith in addition to those which you mention. Let’s talk about it and see what more we can do both new approaches and those which exist.

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Sains Data link
6/19/2025 12:54:14 pm

What do you think the two roads in the poem symbolize?

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John Lally
6/19/2025 04:14:06 pm

I think they symbolise whatever choices we have to make. You choose the road into the wood and take the consequences, you reject that road and take the consequences.

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    Parishioner since 1974 and parish adult catechesis.
    Retired from education in schools and colleges of education, local authority, and Birmingham Diocesan Department of RE

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